C-A-L-I-F-O-R-N-I-A ...

New blog ... not a replacement to this blog, but rather an addition. Feel free to take a cue from Janice and pop by (Janice, you need a hobby - seriously!) Leave a comment, if you wish, or just lurk - I'm used to that from my admirers as well ...

And this is exactly what you have done for me ...

“You must learn her.

You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.

You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.

And, this is how you keep her.”

- Junot Diaz, This Is How You Lose Her

Letting go ...

Pain ...

Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong. 

- Mandy Hale

Have you considered ... ?

Masturbation is a form of stress relief. So go fuck yourself and calm down.

- Anonymous

Always ...

Your work day begins ...

Ummm ... do you really not have something else that you should be doing?

Believe ...

Just don't ...

Kinder ...

Dreams ...

Be selfish ...